Dear Son

Dearest Dylan, 

Today marks such an important milestone in our lives; your graduation from high school. While this milestone may seem huge it will hopefully one day pale in comparison to your other achievements. Still, it represents a special day to your mother and me.

Just over 18 years ago, we cried tears of joy as you came into the world amidst family fanfare. Through these years you have never failed to make us proud of the young man you would become. The moments you spent in my lap as I studied for medical school exams will always remain ingrained in my mind. You knew and remember the struggles and hardships we faced as a struggling family and you always understood that the whole (family) was more important than the sum of the parts (each of us individually). You never asked for 'stuff' and were always happy with the things you had. It was enough for you. 

Our times at the beach every summer with our great friends marked some of our best memories. Certainly we can recall a dozen moments from those trips alone as our most memorable. These memories should carry you far in life as truly great moments are few and far between.

Dylan, you certainly faced some struggles of your own along the way and the disappointments you've endured have made you the strong man you have become. There is no question as to your character. You celebrated 18 years without ever feeling the need or temptation to drink or smoke. That alone is a huge accomplishment in todays world of easy access and peer pressures. After all the letdowns, you got into your first choice of university. The University of Wisconsin at Madison was a great choice and you will enrich the school as much as it enriches you. Go Badgers!

As you start your next chapter, there is a lot to learn and see. The world is open and while Baltimore will always be your roots and the place your family calls home, the world is large and awaits you. Take your time and digest it all; knowing full well that opportunities abound and await those that work hardest. Your first 18 years, your mother and I tried to instill a good foundation for you and now it is time for the world to teach you the rest of the lessons. Be open minded, there is a lot to learn and as parents, we don't know it all. You may be able to teach your parents something, someday. 

Dylan, we are all so proud of you. You know my father would have relished the moment you receive that diploma. You meant the world to him and he loved every step you took. Be strong, be good and keep working hard for the dreams and ideals in which you believe. It will be worth it. 

Now go take those wings you earned and fly high. Continue to make us proud. 

I love you, 

Dad